After being dumped by a guy, the first thing that comes across your mind can be how to win boyfriend back. Although it is possible to do, you must realize that it is not completely your call. It involves the decision of your boyfriend if he is interested to recover the relationship. The video prepared by T. Dub Jackson talks about the first few things that people can do to create practicable situation so that they can get back together with their ex.
First, it is important to find out what didn’t turn out well in your past relationship and improve on them. You will have to show your boyfriend that you’ve learned from previous mistakes. Was it because you spend too much time at work, or hang out with your girlfriends too often? Then, if there is a chance to get back again, spend more time with your ex.
Next, you need to find opportunity to remind him for the fun times and good things in the past relationship. Think about who you were, when both of you met in the first place. Did you change anything since then? For example, were you once an outgoing, cheerful girl who had a lot of things on the go? Then, when you were more engaged with him, did you stop doing all those activities? Perhaps he left because you’re no more the person who impressed him in the first place.
One incredibly powerful technique is to bring him back to the time when he was happy spending most of his time with you. When you remind him about the positive and happy memories, it can make him feel more like wanting to get back together. Bring him to places where you used to go together. Develop the hobbies and do the activities that he enjoys or used to encourage you to participate previously. Doing those things now can hint him that you’re making changes to become even more attractive.
Put aside the grief temporary and find out what you can do to support your ex. You may be able to turn the relationship around if you can help him as a friend. Sometimes his buddies can be critical of you, and they have certain influence over the person he picks for dating. Then, try to win them over.
The appearance matters a lot to the guys. Maintain a good look at all time as you don’t know when the both of you can bump into each other. They don’t like to see a whining, depressed girl. A positive and upbeat person will certainly attract their attentions—so be one in front of your ex.
But, whatever you’re doing, never show that you’re desperate to recover with him. This can cause an adverse effect and make him likes you less.
By now I hope you realize that I’m trying to make you a more attractive girlfriend. Giving yourself a good look and being more interesting can always make yourself to be surrounded with lots of guys—and very soon a new boyfriend too.