Looking for great tips on how to make an ex boyfriend to want you back? While not every breakup can be recovered, here is some advice to increase the chance of making things up. Nevertheless, winning back your ex depends on a few factors–what went wrong between both partners and how things were being handled after splitting up. It will definitely take more effort and longer time if you have been a Screaming Mimi. But, the only thing can help you now is to get started.
Don’t bug him with constant texts, phone calls, emails, or instant messages. None of these things can help to bring him back at this point. In fact, both people will need some space right now to calm down. So, what you can really do now is to live your life. After the emotions subsided, try to find out what happened to the relationship, and which parts you were responsible. Identify your mistakes and amend.
It requires two people to break a bond. So, both are to be blamed for the relationship failure. At this point, focus on the part that you have control over. It means to improve the things you have done wrong that led to the breakup. This is the only way to make the relationship works the next time around when the two of you manage to rekindle love.
Even if both of you can’t work things out, the knowledge you gained and the improvement you have made can definitely bring a better you to all the future relationships. There is really nothing to lose.
One of the hard parts is to admit the mistakes you have made, and it is absolutely important to identify all those faults so that they can be fixed. Don’t try to resolve all the issues alone. Some will need efforts from both parties unless it is a straightforward problem created by you. Both will have to commit to work things out. Of course, this part will come later after recovering the romance.
Once both people have had enough time to clear mind, the next step is to ask them to get together. Treat them as friends and don’t involve any drama. A lot of things can tell from the meeting if there is any chance to make things up. If your ex boyfriend is pleased to see you again, it means a positive sign with a good start although nothing is definite at this point.
On the other hand, if your ex is rushing through the meeting, or keeps on mentioning about his new girlfriend, then it is a negative signal. No matter what comes out from this exercise, at least you tried and knew the answer. You have also taken the opportunity to prepare yourself to be a better person for the next relationship.