Breakup and divorce seem to happen every moment, and the numbers are escalating. Therefore, everyday there are lots of people want to know how to stop a breakup and divorce. Fortunately it can be done. It is also not too difficult if you take these 5 steps to heart, but you are definitely required to put in some energy.
1. Make effort to talk regularly
For any relationship to survive, you need to spend time with the other person. I don’t mean to throw out some odd conversation over dinner table while your children are playing but actually making a sound effort to talk. Find time to spend with each other on a periodic basis, and the best time is when the kids go to bed. Switch off your computer, TV and cell phones. Just sit down and talk about things that concern you, the family, your day and your feelings.
By keeping the lines of communication going, you will find that your relationship will have less conflicts, misunderstandings and disagreements on the little things. It is still perfectly normal to argue from time to time, and in fact, it can be a good thing to do with nice making up sessions.
2. Have respect for the other person
Regardless of how long both people are in a relationship, respect for each other should always be practiced. Give them the room and private time to do the things they want. You should know that your partner is going through some tough time due to work or personal issues which are not related to the relationship. Provide your support although you may not be able to solve their problems. It still will help them a lot.
3. Never put the other person down
When you love someone, you will tend to be open and share intimate details you wouldn’t want to share with the others. If one partner is using this information to put the other person down, the hurt is tremendous. So, be careful for what you want to say. If you have insulted them, quickly say sorry and reassure them you didn’t do it by purpose.
4. Express you appreciation when it is due
Every one of us is at fault for taking things for granted, and this includes how we handle our jobs, our health, our parents as well as our partners. So, start making conscious effort to show appreciation to your loved ones for their effort made in taking care of you and the family. Appreciate them in whichever ways they like to see the praise, in verbal or in the form of some gestures. It can enhance your mutual appreciation and improve the relationship bonding. Thus it reduces the chance of having a breakup.
5. Show forgiveness
To err is human, and everyone makes mistakes. Instead of holding on to your partner’s fault, why not just forgive them. There will be time you mess up and need similar favor and understanding from your partner. The relationship can be much happier if you stop expecting them to be.
Take these 5 tips to heart and you will never need to worry about a breakup or divorce.