Are there any guaranteed tips on getting your ex boyfriend back? I would say there is no sure win method, but doing the right things can definitely help to increase your chance of success.
I know you are desperate now, but before taking any rash action, the first thing you need to do is to think hard about what really went wrong. Did you drive him away, or did he dump you? An honest evaluation of your past relationship is the most important part to determine the next series of actions to get him back.
There are 3 key reasons why a man leaves his partner. Find out which resembles your situation and take the advice to heart.
1. He found another person who attracts him more than you. In this case do you still want to get him back? If he walked away once without caring much about your feeling, then he may just do it again if someone impress him again. Chances of this happening are very high, and it isn’t really a healthy situation. The fact is that he is taking you as a stepping stone before he can find another person.
2. He is looking for his dream girl and he doesn’t want to hold on to you until he gets that perfect girl. If this is your situation, there are only two possible reasons. The love is gone between two of you, and he is prepared to settle down on his own. Perhaps, if there isn’t anyone else getting involved, it may mean that he doesn’t want to tie himself to anybody and that makes him leave you.
3. Something could have happened between the two of you that has hurt him so much. He thought he is no longer wanted. This is the best scenario as he still cares for you. You are the one who has hurt him and force him to run. If you make changes in the right manner, this can also mean that there is a chance to rekindle things and recover the lost love. What you need to do now is to talk to him over the phone, not in person. Let him hear the sincerity of your voice.
Stay calm throughout the talk and ask for another chance. Let him know that the breakup has made you realize that it is very hurtful without having him to be around. The separation was a big mistake and you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make things right. Ask him what is required to recover the relationship, and let him talk. The more your ex speaks out, the better chance you will have to get him back.