Many men whisper, “I need help getting my wife back!” You probably will do the same if a divorce or separation is not something that you would expect to happen. Knowing that you’re not the only person in this situation, perhaps, it may give you a small amount of comfort.
In fact, when couples walk down the aisle together, they feel satisfy and always have high hopes in their marriage. Over time when things get settled down gradually, the love passion will also start to fade away unless both partners know how to continue to nurture the relationship.
In any situation it will never be an easy task to recover a lost love. But, success stories are plenty. One of the very key success factors is to have the right attitude—that is to do whatever it takes!
Before you start to take any action, you have to find out if she is still falling for you. Is there any indication showing that she loves you? Perhaps, she has fallen out of love with you as people do change, and that includes you. May be you are the one who has changed, and not her. In either way, I would assume that she has stopped loving you right now.
Since you’re not alone, the good news is that there have been many good systems developed to help people on this. There are certainly many ways you can try to make her love you again. While there is no guarantee that you will succeed, your chance is zero if you don’t do anything now. So, take actions on the things that I’m going to teach you now.
You need to know that the situation won’t simply improve overnight although you’re desperate. One common issue is that both partners have probably stopped contacting with each other. So, your focus will be to re-establish the lines of communication.
The other thing is to use a lot of common sense. If your former partner is signaling you that she needs more time and room, then she wants to be alone to think about the relationship. Then this is not the right time to make her to talk with you. This doesn’t mean that she won’t love you. Perhaps, she is bothered by the strain of the falling relationship, and she needs some time to ponder how to overcome some things. It will not be easy for anyone in such situation. So, give her the space she wants, and leave her alone for a while. You will get her call when she is ready again.
If she wants to first settle her feelings, then your chance to receive a more positive response will be higher. Once those lines are reopened again, you can start talking to her about what went wrong. Come to terms on the fixes and on how to restore the bond and to rebuild a happier future together. Just be willing to take actions and make changes to whatever it takes. Good luck!