Everything was perfect until something happened that caused your spouse to slip away from you. Two of you have spent some great time together in the past, and so it is understandable that you would always think of those happy moments.
Perhaps, you are spending countless days and nights wondering how to get your spouse back and what could have gone wrong. No matter what caused the relationship to collapse, you think that it was a big mistake. You want to know if your ex is interested to get back together. Well, the chance is always there, and they may also be thinking of how to rekindle things with you. All these while, you may be yearning for an opportunity to bump in to each other, but this doesn’t seem to happen in real life.
Reminiscing of the great time is fun, but it won’t bring back anything. If you really want to recover the love with them, maybe it is the time to take action and find out where their exact location is so that you can start to keep in touch. But, the situation can be really tricky, and you need to move with extra care.
First, find out where their present status is. The best reason to have your foot back in their door is to send a message saying that while you were doing some housekeeping work last weekend you found an old item in the storage room that made you think of them. Ask them how they have been doing. Keep the conversation rolling and share some things about your current situation but not too much detail. One thing you must avoid by all means is to tell them your intention of getting back together. You can lose the chance to recover the love and scare them off right away if you tell them too early.
The best approach at this point is to take things slowly and naturally. If they don’t reply your message, then just let it go. But, if they do reply, it may indicate that they are available and feel happy to hear from you again. You can consider meeting them in person, but it has to be a friendly meeting without much pressure. Never pester them and try to make things happen quickly. Instead, let things flow naturally. If everything is fine, you will expect to see them more often, and you can start a new relationship all over again. Some luck must be on your side hoping that they are not attached with someone currently. But, having a good strategy can really help to bring back a love.