Even though the relationship is already ended for quite some time, you are still not able to get your ex out of your mind. You have tried many methods including going out with someone else, but all those efforts don’t seem to work. You have also thought of getting your ex lover back but you are not sure if it is possible.
So, are you looking for some good advice on how to get someone back? The truth is that many couples have reunited with their ex lovers after breaking up. It has been done successfully by many people, and it is not something impracticable. You can do it if you are willing to do whatever it takes to get back together.
Men and women have different views about the relationship. When something bad has happened and caused a split, both partners have their own reasons to get out of a relationship. What’s in our mind is hard to be understood by the opposite sex. Perhaps men’s and women’s brains don’t work in the same way, and this complicates the situation more. While some situations are quite simple, others are not.
Before we deal with your wish to get back with someone, let us review why in the first place he or she left you.
Why does a man want to get out of a relationship? The reason is indeed quite straightforward. It is because they can’t get what they want. Some definite things they are looking for are respect and admiration. Perhaps they can’t find it ‘here’ but available in somewhere else. A very common remark that the men always give when leaving their partners is “I can’t keep her happy no matter how hard I try!”
What about the women? They leave a relationship simply because they don’t feel being appreciated by their significant halves. They feel bored and unhappy with what they do. Very often you hear a woman complains, “My husband doesn’t appreciate a thing that I do!”
You may think that none of these reasons resembles your case. Your husband left because you committed an affair. Well, why did you look for another man in the first place? When getting deeper into understanding the problem, it probably tied back to the fact that you’re feeling bored or not getting the appreciation and attention that you want.
While you have more time to re-look at the relationship objectively now, try to figure out the good and bad attributes in your marriage or dating life. For the time being, it is important not to let yourself slack. So, eat healthy food, have enough sleep and exercise more. After having a better understanding about your situation, you are ready to make the first contact with them.
Ask them out for a casual date. If they accept your invitation, go meet them and talk about simple, non-threatening topics. Keep the date short and don’t suggest for another one, unless they ask for it.
The date may go on well, just fine, or terribly wrong. If it didn’t go through well, you may want to reconsider the decision whether you still want to try again later, or you really have to move on.
On the other hand, if the date is good, then continue with the 2nd one. At this point, try to make use of a ‘re-bonding system’ such as the one designed by T. ‘Dub’ Jackson. Take a look at his video for some stunning discoveries.