Do you wake up countless times each night cry asking yourself “how can I get my ex boyfriend back?” Perhaps the relationship was ended over something quite silly, and now you figure it out that this should not even happened. He is the one you really want and love.
Who has asked for the breakup? Was it you who has initiated and now regretted it? When a couple has been in love for a long time, it is very easy to take the other party for granted when he is still there. You don’t offer the appropriate nurturing, recognition and respect for him. You don’t give a second thought on this until he disappeared now.
What is the problem with you? Is it because you’re the only person into a stable relationship among all your girlfriends? Do you miss out the fun hanging out together with them and want to regain freedom for being single? Or you’re attracted by the cute instructor at the gym?
It is indeed very hard to keep a healthy relationship and romance going. It is also very easy to forget what attracted you to that person in the first place. The things that are out of reach always seem to be better, and other people’s lives are always more interesting. Don’t get tricked by the deceptive appearance and smile of the instructor. It might be the beginning of a nightmare.
Now you learn that the cute single instructor has left for a reason. You miss your ex boyfriend and want to get him back. But, he was hurt badly when being dumped by you without a real reason except that you’re bored. You will have to spend a lot of effort to restore the trust again.
Contact him and ask him out for a dinner. Wear his preferred perfume, accessories and dress. Make huge effort to remind him of the previous great times both were enjoying together and why he craved for you. Apologize to him for your immature and foolish behavior. Blame on everything except him. This is not the right time to talk about why you’re bored as you don’t want to destroy his self-esteem.
Let your ex know that the short breakup has made you understand the feelings you have for him. He is the only person you’re interested in. However, don’t go too far on this step unless he has mentioned in the past that he wanted marriage and children.
Let your ex know how much you want him as this will make him feel good. Tell him you’re very clear of what you really want this time. Be ready to hear some unpleasant truths about his thinking on your behaviors. Listen to what he got to say. He probably will let go some steam. Just hang in there and do not get revenge.
In the end, you just want the answer on how to get back together. Just ask him for what you have to do.