To say that a breakup is a tough experience is certainly not overstated. Even the mildest one can lead to a whole bunch of negative effects. Unless something has happened that both people must absolutely move in separate ways, otherwise you should avoid getting into a breakup by all means. Here are the warning signs of a breakup you should learn to recognize.
1. Staying away from each other:
It is perfectly fine to want some private time but just to a certain extent. Usually you will have some ideas about what your other half is doing. Even if you can’t get along well with your partner, there will be some day-to-day interaction. If either one person is avoiding the other one, it is certainly a warning indication of a relationship in trouble. You can’t resolve the issues you have without facing each other.
2. Don’t talk:
If partners are avoiding one another, there will be literally no, or very minimal communication even though both people are staying together. While the two of you are living in the same roof, either both don’t talk to one another, or one party refuses to talk to the other person. If this is happening to you, it is important to re-establish the lines of communication.
3. Often arguing:
This is the easiest warning sign to recognize. The expert claims that a certain amount of argument between partners is normal because it is also some form of communication between couples. It is important that the fight is not getting personal but focus on someone’s behaviors and actions. In this case, it is very likely that conflicts or disagreements can be worked out.
4. Sudden changes:
If you partner is showing some odd behaviors and obvious changes, it may be a signal of something is going on. If he or she used to come home immediately after work but is now spending time in the office; if your partner is giving extra care to their appearance, he or she may be trying to impress someone. Does this indicate that the relationship is going to collapse? The answer is yes and no. But, a sudden change in the routine or behavior should raise a red flag that something is happening in the relationship.
When the warning indication is obvious, you should start to identify the roots of all problems and make changes to ease the situation. It is entirely your choice whether you want to make things better. At least, you do put in some thoughts and efforts trying to prevent a breakup from happening and make life better moving forward.