There are almost unlimited resources on the internet teaching you how to get your relationship back. However, knowing that each situation of the relationship is different, one technique works for someone may not necessary work for another person. So, if you want to win back your ex, knowing what you shouldn’t do may be as helpful as knowing what you should do, at least they are equally important.
While facing the tough situation and going through the emotional strain, many people end up doing the wrong thing. It is certainly not their faults as they don’t know which the right way is. Therefore, learning some fundamentals can help you to reconnect with them.
Below are some tips:
1. The first step is to make sure you don’t contact your ex and push them. I know you feel to grab every opportunity to tell them that you still love them so that they won’t find someone else. However, this is really not how things will work. They may start dating, but for someone who has suffered heartbreaking, it will take a while to get rid of you from their heart. In some cases people make use of a rebound relationship to help easing the pain and loneliness. If you leave them alone and give them some time, you will create a situation for them to miss you.
2. Now, take time to focus on yourself, and not your ex. If you have a plan to recover the romance and make the relationship to work, you need to identify what went wrong between both partners. When you manage to figure out the roots of all the troubles, then you should also figure out how to resolve them. Some people may think that they can fix the whole problems by themselves and make things better between two people, but this is a big mistake. The reason is simple. It takes two people to create a bond and break it. Both are responsible for the relationship. If both couple can’t work together as a team to rectify problems, may be it is better to leave everything as they are. Obviously you can’t do it alone.
3. At this point, you’re ready to contact them to ask if they want to get together. Try to meet them at some public places for coffee so that both people can sit down to have a good talk and spend some time together. Be happy and fun throughout the meeting so that they can see the person they use to fall in love with.
It is not easy to follow these tips, but the steps given above have been used by many couples who lost their love and later reunited with their loved one. Hope they can also help you.