How do you get your wife to love you again when the relationship is slowly dying off? Many guys find themselves asking this type of question at some point in time trying to stop a breakup. If you are very concern about the falling relationship, and don’t know what to do about it, here are some things that can be done to improve the situation.
Did your wife say that she has stopped loving you? Did you know why? Your first step is to find out the answers. If she is still staying with you, very likely the love is not completely disappearing. If not, she probably will be elsewhere. This is something that you should be aware of. Then, why is she saying that she doesn’t love you anymore? Or, is she just acting like she doesn’t bother about you?
Most of the time when a woman behaves in such manner it is because she feels that you’re not giving her enough attention and appreciation that she deserved or craves for. She works so hard to cope with her day job, take care of the children, settle the works in the house, socialize with friends and families, and manage other things that the two of you do not share.
Ask yourself, do you ever thank her for all those things that she did for you? Do you realize that she also has her own interests and ideas which are different from yours? Are you aware of those little things she did everyday to take care of the family? If you haven’t already thanked her for all those sacrifices, then do it now.
However, don’t over react by fawning all over your partner asking how things can be made better so that she feels more loved. If this has been going on for awhile, stop immediately if you don’t want to be pushed away. Don’t get hostile or upset about it. Act positively.
What she needs now is some space. Grab the opportunity to have a break too, and take care of yourself. Eat right, work out and go out with the kids or friends during this time and leave her alone. But, from time to time make a few comments such as “Boy, you’re looking good this morning” but leave her and go to work.
When you start giving her some space and focus on yourself, you are sending a message to her that you are alright without her, and she will have a second thought on you being someone who is more desirable and appreciated.
So, act slowly and wait for your wife to make the initial move towards you. Take these tips to heart, and hope they can help to bring back the spark to your relationship.